I often talk about the Journey and the Destination; I always require myself to step back and ask myself (process/debrief):
“Which is Which?”
Is me speaking at AU the journey? Or a destination? Is the http://www.BetterManCourse.com a Journey? Or a Destination? Is me meeting a new friend… you get it.
The part about being specific … I get it, and I’ll push on it.
If “being a millionaire” is something someone wants as a destination, we can help them by asking:
- Do you want to make a million dollars? (Like through a lifetime?)
- Do you want to have a million dollars to your name? (Like in a bunch of savings/real estate/investing accounts?)
- Do you want to earn a million dollars a year? (That’s $86,000 a month, for 12 months…)
I’m not here to judge; I am here to define.
What is the AMBITION? Or, in my case, “What’s the #KnownFor?” And, once you identify THAT, you’re ready to add new people to your circle of influence.
- Soon after I added someone who made a million dollars a year (actually, he made a little more than that) to my social network, I went from earning $60,000 a year to more than $150,000. Within 24 months!
- The moment I added someone who’d written more than 40 books to my network, I published a book. (Within 11 months!)
- The moment I added someone who had a better relationship with his wife to my network, I became a better - and happier - husband.
I think you get it… it’s not a matter of WHAT the goal is, just be specific.
Know your #KnownFor.
Then, add someone to your network who has already gotten there. Not just to copy them; you may ultimately do things differently than he or she does.
The important thing is to be around someone who is there…in their version of the journey… AND the destination!
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